Little Moments, are Actually the Big Ones

The kids are on two different school schedules this year, one starts redonk-ulously early.  I’ve never been a morning person, so we fumble in the dark getting the first one ready for the bus.   By the time, the second one’s ready, there are actually moments of found time, before the rattly bus rounds the corner.

So today, we attempt to finish the book we’ve been reading at bedtime for months now.  The classic, Charlotte’s Web, my childhood copy, is in tatters with a duck tape binding.

There are two chapters to go.

I sit next to my little six year old’s wiggly self and read a-loud.  I have to admit as the multi-tasking mother I am, sometimes I do this and while I’m reading, the words come out, but I am thinking of other things.

Then suddenly, as tears stream down her face as we learn of Charlotte’s ultimate demise, I am keenly paying attention.

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A lump forms in my throat as I read the words, that Wilbur shares with Charlotte’s baby spiders,

“I think it’s only fair to tell you, that I was devoted to your mother.  I owe my very life to her.  She was brilliant, beautiful and loyal to the end.  I shall always treasure her memory.  To you her daughters, I pledge my friendship forever and ever.”

Tears now stream down my face.  The wiggly body now perfectly still, looks at me for first time as I cry in front of her.

Maybe I am becoming a morning person after all?

So this is for the mothers, daughters and true friends today.  Here’s to those moments, big and small…

You Know You’re in New England…

Well folks, it’s been two months or so since we’ve moved from the Northwest to Northeast.  Thought it would be a fun time to share some of my findings and observations with you thus far.

We’ve all heard it, March is supposed to be: “in like a lion, out like a lamb.”  I can’t lie, I’m hanging on to that “out like a lamb part.”  Yup, the weather this winter has been quite epic here, so that is definitely a theme so far, but will continue to collect observations to share for future posts.

So here it is, my Top 10 List so far.

“You know you’re in New England When…”

10. Ice dams (gutters freezing) are all your neighbors and town are talking about

blog2Suddenly you start buying products like “roof rakes” and “roof melt” pictured here that are like chalky hockey pucks that you try to “toss onto your roof” as the package says, to melt snow and free the dams (frozen water) in the gutters, but unless you have a pitching arm like Nolan Ryan, I find it doesn’t work–I was frankly glad to not knock out a window. Next!

9. You hear the words “wicked” “Noreaster” “coffee regular” and breakfast sandwiches served “on a roll” a lot.  Usually all strung together as part of the same sentence

DunkinCoffeeSo wicked means “a lot,” Noreaster means “wicked storm,” “coffee regular” means with cream and sugar, and “breakfast on a roll” is what is sounds like. Much like this: “Can you believe we are going to get another wicked Noreaster? And I’ll take a coffee regular with an egg sandwich on a roll.”

8. Christmas wreaths and decor are still up…in March. Connecticut loves Christmas and well into what is supposed to be spring

LS016049In fairness, most of it is outside–think wreaths and garland, is actually pretty charming.

7. “New England Style” = has cranberries in it

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and also can mean chowda with cream in it of course.

6. School gets cancelled or delayed a lot

blog3An informal kind of “home schooling” becomes normal. Two hour delay today in fact, otherwise this post would have been up 2 hours ago.

5. Maple syrup/sugaring is a weekend activity

blog1p.s. this winter it’s been too cold for the sap to run.  wow!

4. You spot some people playing Paddle outdoors, when there is snow on the ground

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New Englanders are a hearty breed.

3. LL Bean=Winter Couture

tumblr_mk4fr4Fmov1qajhjjo1_500Pedicures are not emphasized this time of year.

2. Folks bring their A-game to prepare for storms

blog4Stocking up on food, water, wood, salt to melt ice, gas for generators, even filling bathtubs with water in the event of losing power are all par for the course.

1. Your home isn’t considered “old” unless it’s Circa 1700’s

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and even these seem to be surviving winter(s)!

Stay tuned for my spring edition once we are more at the “out like a lamb” stage.

Have a great week all!

 

 

Book Shelf Stylin’

A friend of mine asked me to take a picture of some of the bookshelves that I’m currently in the midst of styling.

shelfMy aesthetic is eclectic, yet I approach this kind of styling by utilizing the concepts of sameness and different-ness at the same time, if that makes any sense.

shelf2Some continuity with colors, yet different textures with objects, directions etc.  There are no rules.

Who says a tea set doesn’t belong on bookshelves?

shelf3For now, I’m going with display items that make me happy in a nutshell.

Have fun with it, and have a great week!

 

A Quick Reminder (if even to myself)

Happiness often sneaks in a door-

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you didn’t realize you left open.

Styling the “Man Cave”

I’m not kidding, when we were looking for houses…a room that could accommodate our family heirloom on loan, a.k.a. antique over 10 foot long behemoth mahogany pool table, (that is actually quite awesome and beloved) was among the key criteria.

pool1Well, we found the spot.  This was to be a “man room” for my husband, and I guess if he’s feeling generous, for family play/use as well.

pool6 If I was being really literal, this is no man “cave”, it’s actually more of a man “F.R.O.G” (front room over  garage), my wonderful friend from the south tells me they refer to it.  Let’s go with that.

pool2Because as you can see, a lot of light comes through here.

pool4The room will be a place that shows our history, where we’ve been, literally the states and places, the concerts, the sporting events…the good times.

pool5Comfy places to sit and sip a whiskey or whatever your poison may be.

pool7Masculine details like metals and leather and wood and cigars & boyish things (but you know I will get my flowers in here and of course throw pillows!)

pool3Some “design challenges present themselves with the art, and bobble heads and other random collectibles, but we will make sense of it, or not:)

I searched Pinterest on the criteria of “tasteful man cave”  for inspiration and there are a lot of fun ideas.  Lots of barrels as tables, crafty ways to house pony kegs of beer etc.  The photo below is from the inspiration board on Pinterest for displaying the art in mass and perhaps dark wall color, etc.

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Come back for more soon to check the progress.  In the meantime, we may becoming pool sharks.

Oh p.s., made more progress with the living room–shelves & bar cart styled, more artwork hung and a few other things making it look more “done” though of course it will never be truly “done,” only evolving.  Much like us!

Have a great week!

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